People reach their dreams by trying hard, and making it happen. Failure is also part of our lives, but what matters is the way we overcome challenges and use them to our advantages.
First you will need to accept the challenge or the result as it came, and keep in mind that this particular problem has been given to you because you are capable and strong enough to overcome the issue.
Once accepted, you can start with keeping a positive mind to get passed the pain caused by that failure. You will have to practice healing techniques, until you can set yourself free. Recognize your capabilities. Think positively and understand this is not your final destination.
Be honest with yourself, reflect on why it happened then let it go and move on. It is Ok to feel unbalanced, disappointed, frustrated. You may tumble down like a babe who is learning to walk, but you will have to rise up again with a smile and a cheerful heart. This is a quote from spiritual Upanishads lectures:
“Failures are not stumbling blocks, but stepping stones to success”.
Life is full or turns and blocks, but you have the capacity to give yourself the chance to be closer and closer to your success. Do not repeat your mistakes, learn from your experiences. We can choose to handle obstacles in life and make necessary arrangements.
Ask yourself questions like:
- How can I adjust my course to avoid making the same mistake again?
- What can I do differently the next time?
- What can I learn from this and how this issue has affected my being?
It is important that you answer these questions with honesty and a calm mind. Be constructive and stop being caught in empathy. Make a plan of how you want changes to happen in your life, and be grateful for all the wonderful experiences that are yet to come. Keep away from procrastination, nothing is perfect, nobody is perfect, do your best for you, and for the benefits of all beings.
If some of you would like to share your practice with me, please feel free to leave a comment.
Light and Love.